When Life Goes Wrong: Finding Purpose in the Struggle
Hi, I’m Dr. Kay!
Ever have one of those days?
You know the kind—the ones where nothing seems to go right, plans unravel, emotions are high, and you find yourself wondering, “Why bother?”
Maybe it’s a simple setback. Or maybe it’s one of those heavy moments that leaves you questioning your direction, your choices, and even your purpose.
Doubt in the Midst of Purpose
When I made the decision to leave my corporate career behind to pursue a life rooted in purpose—God’s purpose for me—there were days I seriously questioned if I’d made the right move. Did I truly follow God’s call, or was I just running from something that no longer served me?
These questions lingered in my heart and mind, especially on the days when things didn’t go as planned.
The Value in the Struggle
What I’m learning is this:
God often uses our hardest moments to reveal His greatest glory.
In our brokenness, He meets us with mercy.
In our weakness, He shows us strength.
In our confusion, He offers clarity through His Word.
“Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.” —Hebrews 4:16 (KJV)
How Do We Know We’re Making the Right Choices?
It’s a question we all ask. But here’s one way to be more confident in your decisions:
Ask yourself: Does this align with God’s Word?
God’s Word is alive, relevant, and overflowing with truth that guides us. Whatever you’re walking through, there is a parable, a passage, or a promise that speaks to your situation.
Even when we can’t see it, God is working behind the scenes. He’s refining, redirecting, and restoring us as we walk by faith.
Faith Over Fear
Choosing faith doesn’t mean the absence of fear—it means trusting in God even when fear is loud. It means keeping your eyes on the Kingdom, staying dead to self, and living with full confidence in His promises.
“No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper…” —Isaiah 54:17 (KJV)
“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” —Matthew 11:28 (KJV)
You Are Not Alone
So when things go wrong—and they will—remember who you are and whose you are.
The Creator of the universe knows you, loves you, and sees you. You were never meant to carry your burdens alone.
✨ Let’s Pray Together
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for being my peace in the chaos and my strength in the struggle. On the days when I feel uncertain, unsteady, or overwhelmed, remind me that You are near. Lead me with Your wisdom. Fill me with Your grace. Show me how to trust You more deeply, even when the path ahead feels unclear.
Help me to walk in purpose, aligned with Your Word, and confident in Your love. I release control and place every decision, every doubt, and every fear in Your hands.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
